We find it very easy to say we love our families, but do we show them that we do. The love amongst families comes with its unique feelings, behaviours, challenges, and rewards. You must be intentional about finding ways to show and grow love in the family.
And guess what? Family isn’t just about blood relations, as friends become family.
It’s easy to get consumed with our busy schedules and dream chasing that we forget what’s important to us- FAMILY. You should also realize that there is no perfect time to show love to your family. It shouldn't be reserved for just holidays and grand gestures. It’s the little things we do and how we do them every day.
Here are 4 ways you can express love to your family all year ‘round.
1- Communicate daily- As simple as this sounds, many of us hardly find time to actively listen to our family members and friends. By taking an active interest in their lives whether it’s listening to details of their long day or just letting them vent. It could also be as simple as asking your parents about their new interests and hobbies or listening and talking to your children. It will help the family feel closer and develop a deeper emotional connection.
2- Show physical affection- Sometimes, all you need is a hug or smile to brighten up a person’s day whether it’s your parents, spouse or child. Being physically affectionate will also encourage the whole household to do the same. When kids see their parents being affectionate it shows what a loving relationship should look like.
3- Spend quality time together- The lack of quality time takes a toll on all kinds of relationships whether between couples, parents and their children, or siblings. Take time off and spend it performing bonding activities such as cooking together, going for walks, shopping etc.
4- Secure their future- The greatest love letter ever written to a family is a Life Insurance. By having a life insurance you’re making sure your family which includes your spouse, parent or children will be well taken care of in your absence. When you prepare for life's surprises it shows how deeply you care about your family’s well being. You can call a Life Planner on 0700 3683 777 473 to find a plan that works for you and your family.
Remember to not only show love to your family but to say it as well. Don’t expect your family members to know just because you think you are demonstrating it through your behaviour. People need to hear it, say the words, ‘I love you’ as often as you can. When you say ‘I love you’, it is the ultimate validation and confirmation of their feelings about your action. It is like an unwritten contract of affection between two people.
